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A safe and secure space is a space
which allows a creation to manifest and unfold in an environment
that is capable of fully nurturing and sustaining that creation. It
is a space that allows the creation to unfold according to its
nature with little influence from its environment other to fully
nourish and sustain it. A safe and secure space to allow an
individual to express themselves in a way that the individual can
align perfectly with the flow of their creative life energy/creative
spirit. The individual is then free to allow themselves become
whatever they need to become in whatever form it takes no matter
what it looks like.
A safe and a secure space is a place of
freedom to respond however
we need to respond as we discover and explore ourselves in whatever
form that may take. It is a space where a creation is free to unfold
totally in accordance to its true nature and become who and what it
is rather than want anyone wants it to be. For example, in many
ways, this safe and secure space is the space that would be created
for a child or the offspring of a
perfectly matched
creatively
whole and complete feminine being and a
whole and complete masculine being. In this space, since the masculine and
feminine being are whole and complete unto themselves, they would
have no preconceived conscious or subconscious ideas and expectation
as to what their offspring should become or do in the world. The
offspring would be free to discover and explore their true nature
and unfold according to its own unique nature whatever it looks
like.
What does the safe and secure space look like
What needs to be understood, is that any and all creations will
needs a safe and secure space if they are going to grow and unfold
in an unfettered way. What the safe and secure space looks like
depends entirely upon the creation that will manifest. Although each
creation is unique and original, and never having been seen before,
that does not mean we will totally lack understanding as to what
that space may look like and what the creation needs may be. All
creation unfolds from existing materials and conditions. We can use
the knowledge of the starting materials to understand what hazards
the new creation may face and what will be needed to nourish and
sustain it. If one wants a rough idea of what is needed for any
particular creation, one only need to look for its parents to see
what the creation may need. That is, the
masculine aspect and
feminine aspect that are joining to create the new creation. It is
to look at both the generic and unique particular aspects of each.
It must be remembered that any
joining of the masculine and feminine
creates an offspring. That offspring must be free to develop
according to its nature, not according to the nature and desires of
either parent for it will be different than either parent. The safe
and secure space that the parents needed to become free and
unfettered in their unfoldment will be similar but different that
the one their offspring needs for it will be a unique creation. We
need to be flexible as to exactly what the space will look like and
how we need to create it.
In regards creating a safe and secure space for humans to freely
express their
creative spirit, the major issue is
thwarting the free
expression and unfoldment of our
creative spirit. Very early in life have experiences that block or
thwart the free expression of our creative spirit. We quickly
develop response pattern to protect, suppress or block the free
experience of who and what we are so that we do not experience
repeated painful experiences. Of ten, and most probably guaranteed,
the parents have not been free to grow in an optimum way for the
environment in which they were raised. As such, there are habits the
individual copies from the parents for which they have no
consciousness awareness of how they developed them. The individual
picks them up and uses them in their life not realizing where they
have been learned. There may be the need to carefully study and
observe as to what is really needed to create that safe and secure
space.
In addition there may be the need for undoing habits of the past. It
must be remembered that a seed of a tree that falls to the ground to
grow in less that optimum growing conditions will not look like what
results from the same seed if it fell in optimum conditions. In
looking at the parents to understand what the offspring needs to
grow may lead to errors. To assume that the space we need is only as
big as a tree that produced the seed when the tree is less than
optimum size will only cause us to restrict the growth of the tree
we wish to grow. The goal of the safe and secure space is to create
the conditions for the optimum growth and unfoldment of the seed
that lies within the individual. That includes creating the freedom
from one’s own limiting beliefs and habits but also to break free of
the patterns and beliefs copied from the parents. Since the
environment many not be able to support the seeds optimum growth, we
may have to create the conditions for optimum growth if the seed is
really going to thrive in the way that we wish.
For humans it is relatively clear what the basic essentials are for
a safe and secure space. The Releasing Your Unlimited Creativity
materials on the web provide many of the essential concept to create
such a space. Depending on the conditions in an individual’s life,
all of this will be applicable to one degree or another. It will be
the
rainmaker [singly or with a
matched pair] who determines what
exactly will need to be create for a particular situation for that
is the nature of the rainmaker’s work. It is to
create the space to
allow the nurturing and sustaining waters of creation, the flow of
one’s
creative life energy, to flow into the dry parched land our
inner self to water that internal landscape to bring forth the life
native to that land to bear the fruits inherent within the
individual.
To access the knowledge necessary to create a safe and secure space
for any particular creation, we will need to be out of mind in that
space of the
detached witness rather than in mind and what it thinks
and/or believes may be needed. The safe and secure space is the
space established by the
rainmaker and/or the
dream midwife and
nanny and it is one of, if not their primary role
Related topic
Perfectly matched masculine and feminine
Issues around creating a safe and secure space
A whole and complete feminine aspect of being
A whole and complete masculine aspect of being
The buddy system in creating a safe and secure space
The relation of the masculine and feminine in creating a safe and
secure space
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