The issue of safe sex 

A Releasing Your Unlimited Creativity discussion topic

Copyright 2009 by K. Ferlic,   All Rights Reserved

Sex is very much a two edge sword in many different ways. There is great power and pleasure in sex but there are many hazards. Each of the powers can be used in a constructive or destructive fashion and consciously or nonconsciously and there are consequences however the power is used.

Physical safe sex not discussed. There are a variety of sources on that topic and we need to use the wisdom which is known in our life. The goal here is to bring our awareness to the fact as to how the issue of safe sex relative to our creative spirit arises around every level of our being and that it is much more that just physical protection and/or that provided in a monogamous relationship. The non physical hazards of some monogamous relations can be more damaging than what most will every face physically.

The issue of sex exists at every level of being but what safety looks like at each level is different. The focus it to protect the creative spirit and hold our creativity sacred so as to not compromise its ability to function at any level of being.

What is not realized is that our creative spirit is always functioning as a creative tool and when not used consciously it is used nonconsciously to create the experiences we have. Probably the most powerful realization we can have about creativity, how we create our reality, and create the experiences we have, is to realize the true creative powers of sexuality. It is interesting to note there is great concern and discussion about safe sex and the problems of having sex with a partner who is physically not sexually healthy because of transmittable diseases and that is a real concern of course. However, the need for safe sex exists at each and every level of being. We think of safe sex as protecting ourselves and our offspring from physical illness and disease. Yet we fail to realize we are infinitely dimensional beings and we can be harmed at any level of being and suffer the equivalent of an illness and disease. In this regard, when we think about safe sex, we have to think about every level of our being and does what we do allow the free and healthy flow of our creative life energy in every way or is it being diverted creating unhealthy conditions in some part of our being.

Many have married spouses or have partners in order to have safe sex but those partners have, and are doing, untold damage to the health of our creative abilities and disruption of the flow of our creative life energy. There are toxic relationships that can be threatening to our creative and eventually ours physical life. We get depressed, ill, have accidents, are angry and frustrated, and the like but they never see how much comes from our approach to sexuality and the free expression of our creative life energy. We will always point to an external cause as to why we slowly lose enthusiasm for life and living or why we get a illness or disease and/or have an accident. Yet we never consider how there sexuality and view of sexuality is causing our problems.

Because so much of what we create from sexuality is nonconscious it is in this way sexuality keeps us trapped in the mundane affairs of the world and recreating the future in the image of the past. In unawareness, all of our conscious and nonconscious attitudes, whether they be personal, family, social, and religions that are in any way tied to sexuality get moves into the future when we act on our sexuality. Those attitudes condition how we will respond and act in our sexuality and, as such, are propagated in how we respond. To break the cycle, we will have to see and act in sexuality different than based on how and what they have been lead to believe. We have to consciously have a “not doing” practice around sexuality. "Not doing" is about being and doing different that who and what we think we are and how we think and believe the universe works. "Not doing" around sexuality is exploring and working with sexuality in ways that are not based on how and what we think we should be doing.

We will have to step out of our mind and experience for ourselves the true nature of our sexuality within our own being. It is not necessarily about changing partners but it may be. It is not about becoming celibate and it is not about denying or some how suppressing our sexuality in some way yet it may be. It is about learning to flow with the creative life energy and see how it manifest sexually and not be restricted or confined in any way based on past conditioning. It is about returning to our creative passion, that which gives us an enthusiasm for life and for living and seeing how living that creative passion influences our sexuality. It is about focusing on the heart and opening ourselves to our feelings and let them lead and see what they tell us about our sexuality. It is about discovering and exploring how the creative life energy of the universe that sustains us enthuses our being and gives us a passion for life and for living that we desire to propagate that life at every level of our being.

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