The use of the assistance of another to access our unlimited creativity

 

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The experience of creation/Creation is not done alone. We will always have the need for the assistance of another to give us the type and kind of experience we desire. There will always be an observer and a creation/Creation observed and experienced within some environment or context of observation. The other may be animate or inanimate. But there will always be an other to create an experience to which we will respond and reveal ourselves to ourselves, the other and those around us.

Depending on the perspective we take, we can see that other for whatever we experience in life as leading us, following us, or sharing a mutual experience.

To be lead by another: To be lead is to respond to life and be reactive. It is to have the other cause thoughts, feeling and action to arise within us. We define ourselves by the experiences we have. To be lead is to allow what is external to us and how we experience the external world to define who and what we are and the experiences we have in life. This is the normal way most learn to experience creation/Creation. As a minimum we will live this way until our conscious mind realizes it has choices. However, by the time that occurs, we probably have develop numerous habits where we allow the external world to lead us.

Relative to accessing our truth and releasing our unlimited creativity, another can provide us their path and/or the lessons learned and wisdom gain by themselves and others on their journey. They can also educate us about how creation/Creation works. However, if we follow their lead and what they tells us as if it were our way, we will never live our truth. We need to eat and digest what they tell us and use what is effective for what we need to do. We need to allow effectiveness to be our measure of truth. In generally there is nothing wrong with another telling us what to do as long as they do not cause us to deny, suppress or in some way give up the free expression of our creative spirit, our truth and what lies in what is symbolized in our heart to express in the world.

Another can hold us accountable to our own intuitive guidance and/or play the “devil’s advocate” so that we do not loose focus for what we need to do. The most important thing to look for if we use the assistance of another in any way is to look to see if they have the free expression of our creative spirit and out truth and what we incarnated to do and/or desire to do with our life as their primary focus. Most will put their own interest above ours.

On this point we need to remember, actions speak louder than words. Many may say they have our interest at heart but their actions do not support that truth. Most desire to teach and lead us into their way of viewing the world and Creation. They are not interested if we discover our truth in what they say and teach us. This is only nature and should not lead to a condemnation of the other. But we need to be very aware of this fact. If someone is really going to help us, they should put our heart first and look to hold us accountable to hold our creativity sacred and give us ways, opportunities and the space to do so.

This bring us to the third thing an individual can do for us. They can give us a safe and secure space and the freedom to do what we need to do to allow our creative spirit to unfold true to itself. Creation is not done alone and we will always needs that assistance of another in some way. The question is whether or not they can allows us to unfold true to ourselves.

It working with another, we should look to those individual who allow us to feel an expansion of our own being and assist us to create life within our being. They should help us to feel alive and know that we are creating a life worth living and that serve us and what our creative spirit desires to create and express.

To lead another: To lead and cause another or others to follow us is only the reverse of to be lead. It is where we cause how the other or others respond to life and be reactive. It is to cause the other to have thoughts, feeling and action to arise within them. It is to become the external focus and how what we think and believe becomes the basis for how they experience the external world and the experiences they have in life. This is the normal alternative way most learn to experience creation/Creation. We try and control in one way or another the way the other believes, thinks and does in their life.

However, there is nothing wrong about this. We all do it. It is the nature of Creation. Someone or something will always lead. Someone or something will always call forth our creative spirit to express itself. The only question is do we have the other’s best interest at heart and are we willing to shift our shape to meet their needs or are we look to get what we want and desire at the expense of the other.

Sharing an experience: The third way to interact with the other is to share a mutual experience. Sharing a mutual experience is about learning to dance. It is about learning to shift our shape to meet the needs of the other and the other shifting their shape to meet our needs. We then dance together in a way each alternatively shares the lead with the other. In this dance each grows and each are free to live and express their truth and each move into the infinity of their own being.

The recommendation made here in looking for the assistance of another is to learn to dance with another. It is to realize we cannot give what we do not have. In learning to give to another, we learn to give to ourselves. When we give to ourselves, we learn to give to another. The deeper and more intimate we become with ourselves the deeper and more intimate we can be with another. This is true at each and every level of being/Being. The deeper and more intimate we become in our truth, the deeper and more intimate we become with The Truth. The deeper and more intimate we become with our creativity as the creator, the deeper and more intimate we become what the Creator and Creation.

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